Ironic, in gay community, it doesn't really happy, it is full of discrimination within community.
As a normal gay, I used to mix with gay friends, I thought I can share some common interests like chatting a lot of things beside entertainment and fashion, but I didn't.
Why I had such feeling? As the others day, I had a gathering with my high school classmate. Ya, we off and on have gathering, but the other night, we spent longer time, we had dinner, then went to Station-1 in Sg Long, I brought along a bottle of liquor, after finished, we order beers and other snack continue our chatting until next morning 5am.
It is amazing, my friendship with straight friends had been so long. Of course, as usual, my friends did "test" about my sexuality, but I never show to them. It is not that I feel shame of my identity. I just don't think they need to know.
One of my handsome old classmate, who I had crushed on him during my teenage time, is married now, was drunk, but reviewed his unhappy family. When I told him my opinion about the art of communication with family members, I was surprised he listened to me without doubt.
I hope he can improve his family relationship.
So far, I didn't truly find this kind of gathering in my gay life. I did try to build certain friendship, non were long life as compare to the friendship I with my straight friends. Come to think of it, our friendship last more than 20 yrs. I believe it only last till death do us apart.
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